18th Century Advice

by Forest on December 22, 2009

I’m currently reading John Adams by David McCullough and last night I came across this advice from Adams to his daughter regarding her search for a husband.  Two hundredsome years later and it’s still great advice.

Daughter!  Get you an honest man for a husband, and keep him honest.  No matter whether he is rich, provided he be independent.  Regard the honor and moral character of the man more than all other circumstances.  Think of no other greatness but that of the soul, no other riches but those of the heart.  An honest, sensible, humane man, above all the littleness of vanity and extravagances of imagination, laboring to do good rather than be rich, to be useful rather than make a show, living in modest simplicity clearly within his means and free from debts and obligations, is really the most respectable man in society, makes himself and all about him most happy.

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1 RainyDaySaver December 22, 2009 at 12:17 pm

What an enlightened man.

Also, I like the blog redesign!

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2 Forest December 22, 2009 at 12:27 pm

Oh thanks, but I’m not even close to done. I just implemented the thesis theme but there is a ton of tweaking to be done.

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3 RainyDaySaver December 22, 2009 at 2:59 pm

Well, it’s very clean. Trying to get myself set up on WordPress but having trouble. Need to call my webhost.

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4 MoneyMaus December 22, 2009 at 6:11 pm

I agree, what fantastic advice! And I like the new blog layout :)

Now, if only I could find a man like that… ;)

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